10 Beautiful Crystals For Relationships

Wouldn’t it be great if everyone could get along? And if no one felt lonely? Can you imagine?

Such a scenario is within reach. You can use crystal to help build caring and nurturing relationships between you and everyone in your home.

10 Beautiful Crystals For Relationships

With the right crystals at hand, you can find love, put an end to any squabbles, bickering, and arguing, allow a loving, caring atmosphere to blossom, heal broken relationships, and form real, deep connections between one another.

The purpose of this article is to guide through several different crystals that can help in this regard. Let’s get straight into it.

Crystal Most Associated With Relationships

1. Rose Quartz

Rose Quartz

Beautiful, pastel pink rose quartz is the crystal that’s most associated with relationships, since it’s the stone of love and compassion.

But it’s not just for romantic relationships. It also helps to soothe and nurture other relationships besides, such as with family members, colleagues and friends.

It can bring about feelings of peace and harmony in relationships, turning attention away from the subject of arguments and turning it instead to how you feel for one another.

Best Crystals For Attracting A Partner

2. Green Jade

One of the first things to be concerned about with regard to relationships is to have the right people around you, the right people to confide in, and for most people a suitable partner to share their life with.

And this may mean getting into the dating scene, making some connections, and seeing where they can lead.

And for this, you will need lady luck on your side, and harmonious interactions with your chosen few. That’s where green jade comes in…

Green jade is frequently seen as the stone of attracting good luck, including attracting a romantic partner (see also ‘13 Beautiful Crystals for Attracting Love‘).

It’s also a good gemstone to take with you on a first date, because it evokes a sense of harmony that will be felt by both of you.

And it helps you to open up to new acquaintances. What’s more, it can also help to see past a person’s flaws and see the good within.

Best Crystals For Handling Relationship Anxieties

3. Amethyst

Powerful amethyst is generally considered an all-purpose gemstone because it’s so versatile. But one of its many talents is its ability to help with worry and anxiety.

It is a mood stabilizer in times of stress, and it will dispel anxieties, including relationship anxieties, providing a more tranquil mind that can act calmly and confidently in every scenario.

You can use it at home, at work, or in school.

Its ability to assist in lessening relationship anxieties is particularly helpful in new relationships, where one person’s feelings may seem stronger than the other.

When you are calm and collected, you are in a more stable frame of mind and can keep the green-eyed monster of jealousy at bay.

Best Crystals For Dealing With Toxic People

4. Black Tourmaline

Black Tourmaline

There’s no better way to say this. Sometimes the very people we live with and spend our lives with are by nature toxic.

And if it’s not possible or appropriate to break free of them, we must find a way to get by when they’re around.

The crystal for that is black tourmaline. This powerful stone provides an effective shield against dark and negative energies. It’s a mighty protector.

If you were to hold or wear a piece of ink black tourmaline around toxic people, it is the gemstone that will absorb the negative energy around you so that you don’t have to.

It can also help you to feel calm and collected around toxic people, which in turn prevents you from losing your rag and entering into a fiery argument that won’t end well.

Best Crystals For Clearing Negative Energy

5. Clear Quartz

Sometimes arguments are inevitable, tensions can run high, bickering ensues, bitterness prevails, and the air becomes saturated with negative energy. And this is not a nurturing environment for relationships.

But the good news is that you can use crystals such as clear quartz to swallow up all the negative in your home, freeing the feng shui up so that more positive energy can flow through, thus healing the emotions of those in the vicinity.

What’s more, clear quartz can also bring about a sense of calm and safety, so bad vibes don’t last, and the air, literally, gets cleared. It’s a super simple way to bring a little peace and harmony into your home.

It cleanses the body, mind, and aura, so that you can go forth with positive energy, no matter what has gone on before.

Best Crystals For Nurturing Empathy And Understanding

6. Rose Quartz

Rose quartz is a beautiful and powerful crystal. With it’s pretty pink and translucent shades, it should come as no surprise that it’s frequently used for caring, nurturing, and matters of the heart. 

It’s been around since the time of the ancients. And can be smoky and cloudy, or clear as water. It is often referred to as the heart stone, and represents eternal, unconditional love.

Its benefits arise from its ability to stimulate the heart and throat chakras.

It speaks softly to those around it of love and compassion, and it encourages open, considerate communication, in order to effectively discuss any matters that need to be addressed.

It’s also an excellent crystal for self-love, so it’s a great gemstone to have around when you’ve just had a nasty argument, and you need time to heal.

Or alternatively, to help you to forgive yourself if you have wronged someone.

Best Crystals For Instilling A Sense Of Unity And Deep Connection

7. Amazonite


Sometimes what you and your loved ones need is to talk things out. Everyone needs to be able to say their piece, speak their truth, and to really be heard.

An excellent crystal for this amazonite. This green, usually pale blue-green crystal is much more powerful than it looks. It works on the same chakras as rose quartz does, namely the heart and throat chakras.

This is what gives it the ability to help those who use it to express their standpoint in their emotions with utmost clarity.

Because it is only when we share our feelings and concerns that we can properly address them and move forward. And this is what really gives a deep and powerful connection with those around us.

It also helps you to soothe your anxious thinking, and bring forth feelings of self-esteem when you have been hurt by someone close to you.

Best Crystals For Igniting Passion In Your Partner

8. Carnelian

It’s quite common for passionate relationships to start to wane at times, but getting the spark back is easy when you know how.

Beautiful carnelian with its warm and inviting colors is also known as the stone of seduction.  It’s just the gemstone you need for re-igniting the flame and breathing a new lease of life to your love life.

It works by opening and energizing the sacral chakra, which is the one most closely associated with sexual energy and sensuality.

It will boost the libido and really put you in the mood for some good, old-fashioned physical (and emotional) intimacy.

Best Crystals For Commitment And Lasting Love

9. Lapis Lazuli

Lapis Lazuli is a beautiful, bold blue crystal, often with stand-out white streaks and spots through it.

It’s a great crystal to have at hand when you are serious about someone, and are ready to commit fully to them and have them commit fully to you.

It’s the sort of crystal you’d want to have at hand in an engagement ring, or if you want to ask someone to move in with you.

It helps the wearer to really see others for who they are, and it is that that makes someone want to stay with a person.

It connects you with your inner self and strengthens the bonds that you have with others.

Best Crystals To Heal A Broken Heart

10. Black Obsidian

Black Obsidian

Break-ups and divorces are a time of real downheartedness and negativity. You’re effectively grieving for the love that has been lost, and may still be having difficulty coming to terms with the situation.

What’s more, it’s only natural for those involved to start blaming themselves for what has been lost, which can be even more damaging than the break-up itself.

The route to solving this issue with the help of crystals is with some black obsidian. It removes negativity energy in and around your aura. It dissolves emotional blockages and promotes compassion and strength.

And through this effect, as tough as it might be to say goodbye, you can wish your former partner all the best for their future without feeling hurt that it was their time to move on.

Wrap Up

So, as you can see from everything that was said earlier, there are many crystals that can help you in your relationships, whether you want to attract love, heal a rift, keep a lover, or move on from one, there is a stone for every eventuality.

If you were paying close attention, you’ll have noticed that rose quartz was mentioned twice. That’s because it’s one of the best stones to have around as far as relationships are concerned.

Andrea Daehma
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